After a couple of false alarms, moving day is officially today.
All of the stars have aligned, documents have been signed, and it is a done deal. JC is moving today.
We have yet to see her apartment as she did this all on her own. Oh, we know where it is and approve of the place but we haven’t had to do anything other than work out a budget to make sure she saves enough for Fall tuition and can afford rent and food. The important stuff.
We went shopping last night. Our contribution is all the paper goods and cleaning supplies. It doesn’t seem like much but the other parents are doing the first week’s grocery shopping for them. She
stole took a couple of bath towels, wash cloths and is taking the toothpaste from the bathroom she shares with her brother.
Into the cart went gallon size shampoo and conditioner.
“It says it has 125 washes in it. That will last me the entire summer!” Ulterior motives.
What I hear?
“I won’t have to buy my shampoo and conditioner.”
Razors? Into the cart. And not the cheap ones I buy either. They were the expensive 4 blade ones that I only dream about. I say nothing, but plan on
stealing taking one when she’s not looking. Shhh….she will never notice.
So, after work tonight, her bed gets moved. I am waiting to hear her hauling the bins out to her car. I will have to shut my office door so I don’t hear it. If I don’t hear it, it’s not real.
But I know it is. I keep reminding myself that she will be back in August. Have I said that before? I know. I have.
Emotions are going crazy. I am happy, sad, proud, worried, scared.
Let’s be honest. I am terrified because DB is still around. We have talked and I have prayed that she sees him for what he is. I have faith. I have to.
I must be more accepting of this whole thing. There are good things to come out of this.
She will learn what it is like to be a partial adult. She will be budgeting more, paying for more things on her own and not having us there for everything. It will be good for her.
And it will be good for us. We can start to let go.
Oh and the best part? Nobody will be downstairs directly under our bedroom *eyebrows raised, giggling*.
If you know what I mean!
And you thought I was too sad to be sassy! NEVER!
P.S I will have a guest blog over at No Longer Quiet on Friday. It is my first and I am honored to be chosen. Head on over there today to take a look-see. He is great!